My son left me to take an ambulance alone

During our lake vacation, I collapsed in pain and told my son and his wife. They laughed, “Stop faking it, Dad. You just want attention.” I called 911 myself. 40 minutes later, she posted, “Finally, peace.” When the lawyer called, they panicked.

Some names and details have been changed, but the lesson underneath is real. And I suspect more than a few of you will see echoes of your own family in what I’m about to share.

My name is Eugene Corbett. I’m 68 years old.

For 31 years, I kept a hardware store running on the same corner in Ashland, Virginia, right up until my knees decided they were done with me. I handed the keys over to a young couple who still drop a Christmas card in my mailbox every year.

Which is more than I can say for my own son.

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A quick note: Some names and details in this story have been changed or shaped for the telling. Any resemblance to specific real individuals is coincidental, but the truth at the heart of it is very real.

And that’s what matters.

Right now, I’m settled into a recliner that belonged to Irene. It was her spot for working through the crossword puzzle book she kept on the armrest.

I’m sitting here because Irene isn’t around to use it anymore, and because something she spent years trying to explain to me has finally sunk in.

She used to say our son was missing whatever it is that makes a person feel responsible for other people.

I told her she was reading him wrong.

Turns out she wasn’t.

Irene had a gift for seeing through people. It took me nearly losing my own life before I could admit that.

But let me start from the beginning.

Irene and I got married in 1978 in a Baptist church that doesn’t exist anymore. It was razed to make room for a strip mall in the nineties.

From there, we spent 39 years building something that was never grand but held together.

The hardware store kept the lights on. Irene gave voice lessons out of our living room to half the kids in the county.

We had one son, Curtis, born in 1981.

We poured everything into him the way parents pour everything into an only child, without reservation and with maybe more blind faith than was wise.

Curtis grew up fine. Good grades, a decent kid. He ran cross-country through high school, then headed off to Virginia Tech, earned a business degree, and returned home full of talk about margins and opportunities.

He spoke in language Irene and I couldn’t always follow, though we beamed about it anyway.

At 29, he married a woman named Petra.

Petra worked in real estate and drove a vehicle that cost more than I’d paid for my first house.

Whenever she walked into our little Cape Cod-style home, you could almost watch her calculating what the place might bring on the open market.

I’ve tried to be fair about her.

I’ve tried to be fair about both of them.

But there’s a limit to fairness when you’ve been through what I’ve been through.

Irene fell ill in 2018.

Pancreatic cancer.

The vicious kind. The kind where the doctors stop talking about cures and start talking about managing things.

She held on for fourteen months.

Curtis showed up maybe six times across that entire stretch, and each visit, he managed to leave sooner than the last.

Petra came twice, total.

During her second visit, she spent the better part of an afternoon out in the driveway on her phone, working through some real estate deal that had fallen apart.

Irene passed away in March of 2019, right when the pandemic was sealing the world shut.

We never got a real funeral.

Twelve people, spread six feet apart in a cold cemetery, said their goodbyes to a woman who deserved a packed church with standing room only.

I never confronted Curtis about how he’d handled those fourteen months.

About how it gutted me.

I kept making excuses.

He was stretched thin. His generation grieved on a different schedule. I had no business judging.

What I do know is that before she went, Irene held my hand in that hospital room and said something I wouldn’t understand for a long time.